Allow me to share some important advice about dating…
…a rule that a lot of women don’t realize until it’s too late.
A man will tell you who he is from the very beginning.
-If you’re on a first date and he jokingly admits that he spends too much money, than you should make a mental note that he has trouble balancing his finances.
-If you’ve already started dating and he says that he’s not really into sex (some men just aren’t because they’re insecure, take medication or just secretly gay), then sooner or later you’re going to have some trouble in the bedroom.
-If you are friends and he admits that he’s cheated a lot on his past girlfriends, THAN YOU DAMN WELL SHOULD KNOW HE’S A CHEATER!
Listen to what a man says. There is no excuse. A woman knows exactly what she is heading into if she’s smart enough to pay attention.
I was once on a date with a man I’d just met. Though he was entertaining, charismatic, chivalrous and charming there was something strange about his eyes. They were too pale blue, too magnetic. We chatted and laughed and enjoyed what was otherwise a great time, and as we pulled up to the restaurant, he ended his comical story with:
“….afterall I’m kind of crazy.”
“What?” I said, flabbergasted and suddenly uncomfortable.
“I can just be kind of crazy sometimes…” He repeated laughing.
Despite a great first date, I never called him again.
